Jump into the three parts of the guide most families use first.
Month Overview
This theme is about belonging and identity. It anchors something personal and lasting β the child's own name, their feelings, and what makes them uniquely themselves.
Name recognition, letters AβC, print awareness
Start with the child's own name because it is the most meaningful entry point into print.
Counting to 5, sorting by color, circle and square
Concrete objects and simple routines keep early maths playful and visible.
Five senses, feelings, and the early learning environment
This theme builds an emotional and sensory foundation β identity in the context of your learning relationship together.
This theme asks you to slow down and look carefully at who this child is. If it doesn't feel like enough is happening, it is. The foundation being laid during this theme β routine, belonging, curiosity β is the structure everything else grows from. The most important outcome of this theme is that the child wants to come back to learning tomorrow. Your job in this theme is to set up experiences, demonstrate first, and follow your child's lead. That is not spoon-feeding β it is how children learn safety, sequence, and confidence.
Weekly Plan
Every activity this week connects to the child's own identity β their name unlocks literacy, their senses anchor science, and counting personal facts makes maths feel like self-discovery.
What You May Need
8 items
Ask your child to spot the first letter of their name on three different things before bedtime β a book spine, a food packet, a sign. Notice how quickly the letter starts appearing everywhere.
- Sit together and trace the child's name in a flour tray or on a fogged mirror β say each letter name quietly as you go. Two minutes of this is a complete slow-day session.
- Play a simple name-matching game using index cards with family members' names.
- Create a decorated name banner using letter stickers or markers on a strip of paper.
If the My Name Walk cannot go outside, do it indoors β food packets, book spines, and clothing labels are full of the letters you need. The finds will be different, but the name-hunting is the same.
- π Who in your family has the longest name? Who has the shortest?
- π What would you like to be really good at someday that you aren't yet?
- π What is one thing about you that you think makes you special compared to everyone else?
- π If you could teach someone else one thing, what would you most want to teach them?
If your child is asking you to write their name on things β bags, drawings, lunch boxes β that possessive instinct is exactly where identity work takes root.
Naming and visualising emotions underpins everything: the feelings chart becomes a daily anchor while sorting and reading extend the same vocabulary into maths and stories.
What You May Need
9 items
Notice and name emotions in a picture book; make different faces in the mirror together and guess what each feeling is.
- Look through the My Feelings Book together and add one more sentence to a favorite page.
- Sit quietly and look through a feelings book, naming the emotions you see without talking.
- Draw simple faces showing different feelings β one per page in a small booklet, using a mirror.
Play Emotion Charades indoors. Take turns acting out feelings while the other person guesses. Use a mirror to check your expression.
- π If feelings had colors, what color would happy be? What about worried?
- π Can you feel two different feelings at the same time β have you ever?
- π Why do you think we cry when we're sad β what do you think tears are for?
- π What is something you do that makes other people feel happy?
If your child is starting to name feelings they notice in themselves or in characters from books, the emotional vocabulary work is landing. That matters more than letter-perfect output.
Home makes abstract concepts concrete β drawing a room map builds spatial thinking, identifying household shapes ties geometry to real life, and letter review uses familiar objects.
What You May Need
10 items
Go on a shapes hunt in your neighborhood or at the shops; spot letters A, B, or C on signs and packaging.
- Walk slowly through one room at home, spotting shapes together. Name each one and count how many you find.
- Sort picture cards of household items by their shape β circles, squares, triangles β on a quiet table.
- Trace around lids, coasters, and books to create different shapes on paper without leaving the room.
Sink or Float is a perfect rainy-day indoor activity β the bowl of water and your child's outdoor finds are all you need. Add a rainy-day challenge: predict what the rain itself would do to a paper boat.
- π What is your favorite thing about our home β what makes it feel like yours?
- π Why do you think doing things in the same order every day helps us feel calm?
- π If you could add one brand-new room to our home, what would it be for?
- π What shape do you notice most in our house β why do you think that shape is used so often?
If your child is beginning to count objects in small groups (even if they skip numbers or recount) rather than just reciting numbers by memory, they're building the thinking the whole maths year rests on.
This week celebrates how far the child has come: body tracing anchors identity in something physical and measurable, counting around the room makes maths part of the space itself, and the Theme Celebration closes this theme with joy before the next adventure begins.
What You May Need
10 items
Go on a nature walk and collect one interesting thing each β a leaf, a stone, a seed pod. Sort them by color, size, or shape at home.
- Walk slowly through one room spotting shapes β circles, squares, triangles β and count how many you find.
- Sort picture cards of household items by shape on a quiet table.
- Look at the self-portraits from this theme and notice which colors and shapes appeared most often.
If the outdoor walk is not possible, build the child's name in 3D using playdough, blocks, or pasta shapes on any flat surface.
- π What did you make during this theme that you are most proud of?
- π What is one thing that was hard at the start of this theme that feels easier now?
- π If you could keep one thing from this theme forever, what would it be?
- π What would you most like to explore in the next theme?
If your child is asking 'what are we doing today?' with genuine anticipation β the identity work of this theme is already moving into the background where it belongs.
Core Learning Experiences
This month's hands-on activities, grouped by week. Open Instructions to run each one.
My Name Book
On Day 1 make a small stapled booklet β the My Name Book β with one page per letter of the child's name. Across the week the child fills one page per session, each page built around a single letter of their name. Letter A on its page in cloud dough, letter B on its page in paint or crayon, a find from the Name Walk glued beside the letter it starts with, a picture of someone they love whose name starts with that letter too. By Friday the booklet holds the child's whole name, letter by letter, as a personal first reader nobody else's family could write.
You Will Need
- A small stapled booklet β fold three or four sheets of A4 in half and staple along the fold; one page per letter of the name, plus a cover
- Cloud dough (2 cups cornstarch + 1 cup hair conditioner), kinetic sand, or a shallow flour tray
- A shallow tray or baking dish for the dough
- A stick, chopstick, or blunt pencil for writing in the dough
- Pencil, crayons, and glue
Instructions
Set Up
On the first session, fold three or four sheets of A4 in half and staple along the fold β this is the booklet. Count the letters in the child's name together and make sure the booklet has at least that many inside pages. The child writes their name (or copies it) on the cover. Mix the cloud dough in the tray and smooth the surface flat. One letter per session is the rhythm β if the name is long, two letters can share a day later in the week. The booklet lives on the table or a shelf the child can reach so they can flip through filled pages between sessions.
On Day 1 write the first letter of the name in the cloud dough and trace it together, slowly, saying its name and sound. Then open the booklet to Page 1 and make that same letter on the page β a big crayon letter, a fingerprint letter, or a letter drawn over the dough impression. Add one thing the child says belongs to that letter β a drawing of someone or something whose name starts with it. Over the next three or four sessions return to the booklet and fill one page each time, one letter at a time. By Friday read the finished book cover to cover.
β Making the booklet, tracing the first letter in the cloud dough, and making that same letter on Page 1 is a complete first session. The book can grow tomorrow.
The child writes each letter themselves on its page (using the dough or a written model as a guide) and chooses what belongs beside it β a Name Walk find glued in, a drawing of a pet or family member, or a letter-sound word they think of independently. On the closing session, flip through every page and read the letters in order, then out of order, then as the whole name.
Each page holds the letter AND a one-line sentence β "A is for Alex and for apple" β written from memory or copied. On the back cover, the child writes the first letter of a family member's name and circles any letters that match their own. The finished booklet is read cover to cover aloud to a family member, sound by sound.
What to Say
- Open Question "This is your name β all these letters belong to you. Which letter do you want on today's page?"
- Wonder "Can you feel the shape of that letter under your finger in the dough? What does it remind you of?"
- Compare "Look back at the pages you've filled. If you read them one after the other, do they spell something we know?"
What to Observe β Log in Progress Tracker
- Does the child return to the booklet between sessions β flipping through the filled pages before they start today's letter?
- Does the tactile cloud-dough tracing hold their attention longer than pencil-and-paper practice?
- Which letter of their own name do they find easiest? Which one surprises them with its shape?
Ideas for next time
Switch the medium β trace the next letter in a flour tray, in wet sand, in shaving foam on a tray, or in soft food at the table. The booklet page can receive a print of whatever medium you used.
Add a Name Walk find to each page β the acorn for A, the leaf for L β so the booklet holds the walk's collection letter by letter.
At mealtimes, let the child trace the letter of the day into a soft food β yogurt, mashed potato, or sauce on a plate β before it goes into the booklet in crayon.
The world is full of writing surfaces β dirt, playground sand, condensation on a window β and finds that belong in the booklet.
- "Can you draw today's letter in the dirt with a stick before we go back inside?"
- "Is there something out here that starts with today's letter? Shall we take it home for the page?"
A tray of dough or sand on the coffee table becomes a calm, absorbing writing practice that feeds the booklet.
- "Which letter in your book was your favorite to make? Let's do it again in a new way."
- "Read me your name from the book, one page at a time. Slowly, like each letter is its own word."
If your child's name is spelled or written differently in your heritage language, add that version on the back cover or on its own page inside. Two scripts, one name β the booklet becomes a bilingual first reader.
Sink or Float?
Retrieve the objects your child gathered on their Name Walk β the stone, leaf, acorn, or seed pod each letter of their name led them to find. Place a bowl of water on the kitchen table and test every single one. A leaf may float while a stone the same size sinks. These are things your child already named and claimed on your walk together; finding out something new about them deepens that story. If the Name Walk collection is not at hand, gather 8β10 objects right now β some from the yard, some from inside β with the child choosing every one.
You Will Need
- Name Walk collection (5β10 outdoor objects β stones, leaves, seeds, bark, acorns, feathers) OR 8β10 child-chosen objects from home and yard
- A large bowl or basin of water
- A recording strip β one line down the center, Sink on one side, Float on the other
- Pencil or crayons for recording
Instructions
Set Up
Set the collected objects beside the bowl and name each one together before any go in the water. Ask what each object is made of and what the child thinks will happen. Mark predictions on the recording strip before testing begins.
Hold up each object and ask β sink or float? The child points to a side of the recording strip and you mark it. They drop the object in and watch. Did it match the prediction? Work through all objects together.
β One prediction made, tested, and watched with full attention β a complete science moment with the child's own found objects.
The child makes each prediction independently, marks the recording strip themselves (drawing the object or writing its name), then tests it. When all objects have been tested β how many predictions were right? Which result was the most surprising?
After recording all results, sort the float group and the sink group by what they are made of β soft things (leaves, feathers, bark) and hard things (stones, seeds, shells). Does a pattern emerge? Does anything break the rule? The child explains in their own words why they think that object does what it does.
What to Say
- Predict "These are the things YOU found and named. What do you think β will your [stone/leaf/acorn] sink or float? Why do you think that?"
- Wonder "That one surprised you. What do you think made it do that?"
- Compare "Look at everything that floated. What do they all seem to have in common?"
What to Observe β Log in Progress Tracker
- Does the child make genuine predictions before testing, or wait to see the result first?
- How do they respond to a surprising result β curiosity, frustration, delight?
- Do they begin to notice patterns across results, or treat each object as completely separate?
Ideas for next time
Test one object from inside the house β a crayon, a marble, a wooden block β and compare it to the outdoor finds.
Find one more outdoor object to predict and test; see if prediction accuracy improves with practice.
Sink or float thinking appears in cooking, in the bath, and at the pool β point it out whenever it comes up naturally.
The bath is a permanent science lab β buoyancy and flow are right there every evening.
- "Which bath toys float? Which ones sink? Does that match what we found with the outdoor objects?"
- "What happens when you push a floating toy underwater and let go?"
The kitchen holds dozens of sink-or-float moments waiting to be noticed.
- "That pasta floats when it is cooked. Why do you think that is?"
- "What would happen if we put this apple in a big bowl of water?"
Name each object in your heritage language before testing it β the words for natural things (stone, leaf, seed) vary beautifully between languages.
All About Me Numbers
On Day 1 make a small stapled booklet β the All About Me Numbers book β with the child's name on the cover. Across the week the child fills one page per session, each page holding one personal number from a different "number home" in their life β their body, their room, their kitchen, the people who love them. By Friday the book holds four or five numeric facts that together make a numerical self-portrait nobody else's family could write.
You Will Need
- Four or five sheets of A4 paper folded and stapled β the All About Me Numbers booklet
- Pencil and crayons
- Real things in the child's own home to count
Instructions
Set Up
On the first session, fold four or five sheets of A4 in half and staple along the fold β this is the booklet. The child writes "My Numbers" (or their name) on the cover. Together, brainstorm three or four "number homes" to visit across the week β Me, My Body, My Room, My Kitchen, Who I Love. One page per number home; the child chooses which comes first. The book lives on the table or a shelf the child can reach so they can return to it between sessions.
Fill the first page together on Day 1 β the Me page. The headline number is the child's age; add one or two smaller counts beside it (people at home, pets, siblings). The child draws what is being counted; you or they write the numeral. Over the next three or four sessions return to the booklet and fill one page each time β a different number home on each page. By Friday the book holds four or five pages, read aloud from the cover.
β Making the booklet, filling the Me page with one personal number, and drawing what it counts is a complete first session. The book can grow tomorrow.
The child chooses the next number home each session and says what they want to count before you begin. They count by touching each thing, write the numeral themselves, and draw what was counted. On the closing session, flip through every page and find the biggest and smallest numbers β is the biggest the count of something they love? Or something small they did not expect to beat it?
Each page holds the number AND a one-line "I notice" sentence β "I have more books than stuffed animals," or "Our kitchen has the same number of chairs as people at home." On the closing page, the child invents a number riddle from one of their pages ("I have four of something β guess what") and reads it to a family member for guessing. The finished booklet is read cover to cover aloud.
What to Say
- Open Question "Which number home do you want to visit today β your body, your room, your kitchen, the people you love? Which one feels biggest in your head before we count?"
- Predict "Before we count, how many do you think there are? Let's write your guess, then find out."
- Compare "Look at all your pages together. Which number is the biggest? Is it one you expected, or did a smaller number surprise you?"
What to Observe β Log in Progress Tracker
- Does the child return to the booklet between sessions β flipping through the filled pages before they choose today's number home?
- Do they count with one-to-one correspondence, touching each thing as they count, or does the count race ahead of the touching?
- Which number home sparks the most interest β and which surprises them with a larger or smaller count than they predicted?
Ideas for next time
Make a number home page for a family member β what would their Me page, their room page, their loved-ones page say?
Add a final page counting something the child cannot see all at once β heartbeats in a minute, steps from the front door to the car, days until a visit they are looking forward to.
Numbers about the family appear everywhere β birthday cards, shopping lists, house numbers, the clock. Point them out whenever they appear and ask if they belong on a booklet page.
Every outing is potential page material β steps to the car, houses on the street, birds at the park, fruits at the market.
- "What number is on that house? Can you count up to find the next one?"
- "How many steps from the front door to the car today? Shall we put it on a page?"
A flip through the finished booklet at the end of the week turns counting into a story about who the child is.
- "Which page in your book is the most surprising?"
- "If we made one more page today, what would it count?"
Count and say each personal number in your heritage language β "I am this many years old" often sounds and feels completely different in another tongue. Write both numerals on the page if they differ β the book becomes a bilingual counting record.
My Feelings Book
Make a small handmade book from real moments of the past few days β each page names a feeling the child actually had, shows their face making that expression, and holds a quick sketch of the moment that caused it. The list of feelings comes from the child, not a template.
You Will Need
- Four sheets of blank paper, folded and stapled into a small booklet
- Pencil, crayons or markers
- Mirror (to check expressions while drawing)
Instructions
Set Up
Before folding paper, take a "feelings walk" together through the past few days. Parent and child recall specific real moments β the wobble at drop-off, the laugh at dinner, the quiet at bedtime β and name the feeling each one produced. The child's list becomes the booklet's topics. Then fold 4 sheets and staple into an 8-page booklet labelled "My Feelings Book" and the child's name, reserving one page per feeling.
Work through two feelings together, using two remembered moments as the anchor. For each one, look in the mirror to find the face, draw it on the page, and add a quick sketch of the moment underneath. Parent writes a one-line caption the child dictates ("I felt this when the rain started").
β One finished feelings page β face drawn, moment sketched, feeling named β is a complete activity.
The child draws each mirror face independently, sketches the moment below it, and dictates or copies a one-line caption. Aim to cover every feeling they named on the feelings walk β however many that was.
The child completes all pages independently (invented spelling fine), then adds a last page for a feeling that didn't have a word when it happened. Parent and child name it together and add it to the book.
What to Say
- Open Question "Can you think of a moment this week when you felt something strongly? What was it?"
- Wonder "Looking at that moment now β was there a feeling inside it you hadn't noticed at the time?"
- Extend "If a feeling you had this week didn't have a word, what word would fit it best?"
What to Observe β Log in Progress Tracker
- Does the child connect each feeling to a specific real moment rather than a generic scenario?
- Are they introducing feelings the walk surfaced that weren't expected?
- Can they name a feeling that didn't have a word when it happened?
Ideas for next time
Add a new page whenever a strong feeling comes up in the rest of the week β sketch the moment while it is still fresh.
Make a feelings page for a favorite book character β what feelings do they have?
Leave the book somewhere accessible so the child can add to it independently when a moment happens.
A short end-of-day recall gives the Feelings Book fresh material β the day's real moments become the next page.
- "What was one strong moment today? Can you name the feeling it gave you?"
- "Do we need to add a page, or did that feeling fit one we already have?"
Picture books give children safe distance to explore big emotions β and sometimes a better word for a feeling of their own.
- "Have you felt something like what this character is feeling?"
- "Does this feeling need a page in your book? What moment would you draw?"
Name each feeling in your heritage language as you add it β sometimes a feeling from a first language names something that has no word in English, and that gets its own page.
Setting the Table
Your child is the Table Setter. Before a meal, they carry, count, and lay each place. A small daily role that makes them feel needed β and teaches counting and spatial thinking without a worksheet.
You Will Need
- Plates, cups, cutlery
- A placemat or piece of paper as a template
Instructions
Set Up
Count how many people are eating. Lay the materials within the child's reach. Show the placemat layout once, then step back.
Carry the napkins to each seat. One napkin, one seat. Count together as you go.
β One napkin at each seat counts as a complete contribution.
Set one full place: plate, cup, fork. Check by looking: 'Does everyone have a plate?'
Set the whole table independently. Notice what's missing and problem-solve: 'We have four people β how many spoons do we need?'
What to Say
- Open Question 'You are the Table Setter tonight. How many people are we setting for? Let's count together.'
- Compare 'Does everyone have what they need? What's missing?'
Ideas for next time
Name each step in your heritage language as your child completes it β turning a routine into living vocabulary.
Name Syllable Clap
Clap the syllables in the child's name, then explore syllables in other familiar words. Works in the car, at the table, or walking between rooms β no setup needed, and it tends to become the game they ask for on the way to the shops.
You Will Need
- Optional: small drum, wooden spoons, or clapping sticks
Instructions
Set Up
Sit together in Morning Circle or at the table. Clear away distractions β this is a listening and movement game.
Clap the syllables in the child's name together. Say it slowly and clap on each part. Count the claps.
β Clapping through the child's own name once is a complete and joyful session.
Clap names of family members and pets. Sort words into short names (1 clap) and long names (3+ claps).
Introduce the word 'syllable'. Clap compound words like 'sun-flow-er' and blend the parts back into one word.
What to Say
- Open Question "Let's clap your name β clap each part as we say it together."
- Compare "How many claps did your name have? Let's count again and check."
- Wonder "Whose name do you think has the most claps in our family?"
What to Observe β Log in Progress Tracker
- Can the child clap in time with syllable breaks β even approximately?
- Do they show delight in discovering names have different numbers of syllables?
- Are they trying to count the claps independently?
Ideas for next time
Try the syllable clap using the heritage-language version of the same name β does it have the same number of beats, or does the name change shape?
Take turns clapping each other's names and counting together.
Portrait Color Mixing
Mix paint to find the colors of your own face β hair, eyes, and skin. Primary colors on a tray are the starting point; the real work is looking in the mirror, mixing, comparing, and asking "is that close enough?" This is not abstract color theory β it is color as personal discovery. Every child needs a different combination to find their own colors, and the portrait made from personally mixed paint is one worth keeping.
You Will Need
- Red, yellow, and blue paint (finger paint or tempera)
- White paint (essential for lighter hair and skin tones)
- Mixing tray or ice cube tray
- Small mirror (to compare the mix to real features)
- Thick paper for the portrait
- Paintbrushes
Instructions
Set Up
Set the mirror where the child can see their own face while painting. Pour small amounts of red, yellow, blue, and white into separate sections of the tray. Invite them to look carefully at their hair first β what color do you see? Which paints do we need to start with?
Look at the child's hair in the mirror together. Name the color and choose which paints to start with. Mix a small amount and compare to the mirror β close enough? Paint a patch on paper. Then try the eye color. Two matched colors is a complete session.
β One successful mix that is recognizably close to a real color on their own face β a complete and personal session.
The child mixes independently for hair and eyes. Then, together, explore a skin tone β start with yellow, red, and white and adjust. They paint a simple portrait using their three personally mixed colors and compare to the mirror.
The child mixes hair, eyes, and skin independently. They paint a complete self-portrait using only personally mixed colors. On the back, they record a simple recipe for each mix. They then try mixing one more color for a detail β lip color, a freckle, an eyelash.
What to Say
- Open Question "Look in the mirror at your [hair/eyes]. What colors can you see? Which paints should we start with?"
- Compare "Hold the paper next to your face. Is the color you mixed close? What would you add to make it closer?"
- Extend "How did you make that color? What did you mix together to get there?"
What to Observe β Log in Progress Tracker
- Does the child look back and forth between the mirror and the paint β using observation to guide mixing?
- Do they persist when the first mix is not quite right, or do they accept the first result?
- Are they developing vocabulary for color variation β dark, light, golden, reddish?
Ideas for next time
Mix a color to match something else in the room β a cushion, a leaf, or a piece of fruit.
Write a color recipe on the back of the portrait β which paints went into each mix.
Look at portrait illustrations in picture books and notice how different artists painted different faces.
Illustrated portraits show how different artists approach skin tones and features.
- "Look at how the artist painted this child's face β what colors do you think they mixed?"
- "Does this portrait look like someone you know?"
Noticing mixed colors in the natural world connects to what was explored at the tray.
- "What colors would you mix to get exactly that color?"
- "Is that the same kind of brown as the paint we mixed, or a different kind?"
Name each color in your heritage language as it appears β and notice which language has richer words for the shades you are mixing.
Body Tracing and Measuring
Your child is the Body Mapper. Lie flat on a big sheet of paper while you trace, then measure, count, and decorate. The outline is a snapshot of who they are right now β date it and tuck it into the portfolio where it can be revisited any time.
You Will Need
- Large roll of paper or several sheets taped together
- Markers or crayons
- Yarn or string
- Measuring tape or ruler (optional)
Instructions
Set Up
Unroll paper on the floor. Invite the child to lie down flat with arms slightly out. Trace the outline. Date the corner and keep the tracing in the portfolio.
Trace the outline and decorate it freely β add hair, clothes, and a face. Count body parts together: two hands, ten fingers, one nose.
β A completed outline β even if not fully decorated β is a wonderful record of this theme.
Cut a length of string to match the child's height. Compare to a parent's height. Measure hands and feet with non-standard units.
Record height in centimeters. Estimate and check: 'How many of your own feet tall are you?' Save the measurement with the tracing so it is easy to find again.
What to Say
- Wonder "You are the Body Mapper today. You are exactly this big right now β let's capture it on paper."
- Open Question "How many fingers do you have? Let's count all the way to ten."
- Compare "How tall are you? How many of your own feet tall do you think you are?"
What to Observe β Log in Progress Tracker
- Does the child touch each body part as they count?
- Are they interested in comparing their size to others?
- Do they use measurement vocabulary β tall, short, longer, same?
Ideas for next time
Name each body part in your heritage language as you trace it β head, shoulder, elbow β and notice which words feel familiar from everyday family life.
One child lies flat while the other traces their full outline. Swap roles. Compare: whose arms are longest? Who is tallest? Whose hands are bigger?
Washing Hands Properly
Six steps, in order, every time. A ten-minute skill you will rely on for years. Named and respected, not nagged.
You Will Need
- Sink with running water
- Soap (bar or pump)
- Hand towel
- Optional: simple step picture card
Instructions
Set Up
Stand beside the child at the sink. If possible, print or draw a simple six-step picture card to display at sink height: wet, soap, scrub, rinse, shake, dry.
Do each step together while naming it aloud. Wet, soap, scrub (count to ten), rinse, shake, dry.
β Completing the wet-soap-scrub-rinse sequence is enough for the first session.
The child leads while you narrate. Count to ten during scrubbing. Check: are the backs of the hands clean too?
The child completes the full routine independently without prompts. They check their own hands before declaring done.
What to Say
- Open Question "You know all six steps β show me the first one."
- Compare "Count to ten with me while we scrub β that's how long soap needs to work."
What to Observe β Log in Progress Tracker
- Does the child remember the sequence without prompts?
- Are they beginning to transfer this habit to pre-meal and post-toilet routines?
Ideas for next time
Name each step in your heritage language as your child completes it β turning a routine into living vocabulary.
Caring for Books
Your child is the Book Keeper β they open from the spine, turn pages gently, and return each book to its shelf. A ten-minute skill that protects the family library and teaches that some things are cared for, not just used.
You Will Need
- A small collection of picture books
- A designated bookshelf or basket
Instructions
Set Up
Sit with a small pile of books. Show how to open a book from the spine, turn pages gently, and close it without folding corners.
Demonstrate gentle page-turning with the child watching. Let them practice on one book. Together, return each book spine-out to the shelf.
β Returning three books to the shelf without bending pages is a complete session.
The child returns all books to the shelf independently, spines facing out and titles visible. Notice if any are upside down and self-correct.
The child takes responsibility for one book repair: tape a loose page, straighten a bent cover. Discuss why books deserve care.
What to Say
- Wonder "You are the Book Keeper today. Books hold stories and ideas β they deserve the same care as something precious."
- Open Question "How do you think we should put this book away so someone can find it later?"
What to Observe β Log in Progress Tracker
- Does the child slow down when handling books?
- Are they beginning to return books without being asked?
Ideas for next time
Name each step in your heritage language as your child completes it β turning a routine into living vocabulary.
Making a Name Placemat
They write their name, draw a self-portrait, and decorate a card that lives at their place at the table all month. A tangible reminder β this is my spot, and I belong here.
You Will Need
- A sheet of card stock or thick paper (A4 or larger)
- Markers or crayons
- Stickers or stamps for decorating (optional)
- Clear contact paper or laminating pouch to finish (optional)
Instructions
Set Up
Write the child's name in large light pencil letters across the center of the card. Lay out the decorating materials. Say β this will live at your spot all month.
Trace over the pencil letters together, then decorate the borders freely with favorite colors and shapes.
β A name traced or written and a single decoration β this is a completed, meaningful identity artefact.
Write the name independently (copying from a model), add a self-portrait, and decorate all four borders.
Write name from memory, add: a favorite thing, a feeling word, and a small picture of something important. Describe it to a family member.
What to Say
- Wonder "This is your name β every letter belongs to you. What do you notice about it?"
- Open Question "What would you want someone to know about you just from looking at this placemat?"
What to Observe β Log in Progress Tracker
- Does the child write their name with confidence, or do they need the model nearby?
- How do they show identity β what do they choose to include?
Ideas for next time
If your child's name is spelled or written differently in your heritage language, add that version to the placemat β two scripts, one name.
My Name Walk
Walk outside and find one thing β a natural object, a sign, or anything in the current environment β for each letter of the child's name. E is for elm leaf. L is for ladybird. A is for acorn. The walk uses Who We Are's outdoor abundance and makes the child's own name the engine of a literacy investigation. Every name is a different walk.
You Will Need
- A small bag for collecting (optional)
- Paper with the child's name written in large letters β this is the guide for the walk
Instructions
Set Up
Write the child's name in large clear letters on a strip of paper before heading out. Take it along. Tell the child β we are going on a hunt. We need to find one thing from outside for every letter of your name.
Walk together holding the name strip. For each letter you say the name and sound β the first letter is E, it makes an 'eh' sound, let's find something that starts with that sound. Collect or point to each find together. Celebrate every match loudly.
β Finding two or three letters of the name outdoors with a name for each find is a complete literacy walk for this theme.
The child leads the search for each letter, saying the name and sound independently. They choose what to collect or point to. On returning, they draw each find next to its letter on the name strip.
The child finds all letters of their name, collects or photographs each outdoor find, and creates a finished illustrated name key β each letter with its matching find drawn beside it. For any difficult letter they problem-solve independently β what thing in this season could possibly start with X?
What to Say
- Open Question "The first letter of your name is [letter]. What sound does it make? What can we find outside that starts with that sound?"
- Wonder "Look at all the things hiding outside that match your name. Did you know your name was out here?"
- Extend "Which find was hardest to think of? How did you figure it out?"
What to Observe β Log in Progress Tracker
- Does the child search by sound or by letter shape β what is their main cue?
- Can they generate a word starting with a given sound independently?
- Which letters are easy and which require the most thinking?
Ideas for next time
As you walk, name what you find in your heritage language too β a stone, a leaf, a gate β so each letter of the name gets two words.
Hanging Up Belongings
A ten-minute routine β hang the bag on the hook, place shoes on the mat, put the coat away. Teach it now and save yourself hundreds of reminders later in the year.
You Will Need
- A coat hook at child height
- A shoe mat or designated spot
- The child's bag or backpack
Instructions
Set Up
Point out the hook, the shoe mat, and where the bag lives. Name each place: Bag hook. Shoe spot. That is yours.
Model the full sequence: hang bag, place shoes, put coat away. Then do it together, narrating each step.
β Hanging up the bag independently is a real achievement at this point in the year.
The child completes the sequence while you narrate. Bag first, then shoes, then coat. Check each step together.
The child arrives and completes the full routine independently without prompts.
What to Say
- Open Question Everything has a home in our space. Where does your bag live?
- Wonder You remembered the whole thing all by yourself. That is exactly right.
What to Observe β Log in Progress Tracker
- Is the child building the habit without being reminded?
- Do they show pride in having a place that belongs to them?
Ideas for next time
Name each step in your heritage language as your child completes it β turning a routine into living vocabulary.
Faces From the Week
Parent names a specific real moment from the past few days β the child sits at the mirror and shows what their face looked like in that moment. Then they swap roles. The session is an embodied recall that feeds directly into the Feelings Book being built this same week.
You Will Need
- Small unbreakable mirror
Instructions
Set Up
Sit together facing the mirror. Before you begin, parent thinks of two or three real moments from the past few days when the child showed a clear feeling β a wobble, a laugh, a frown at the end of a favorite book.
Name one moment β "Remember when the train left without us yesterday?" The child sits at the mirror and shows what their face did then. Parent names the feeling the face is showing. Swap roles β child names a moment, parent shows the face.
β If the child recalled and showed one real moment with a clear face, the session was a success.
After each face, the child names a word for the feeling and says one thing their face is doing ("My eyebrows went down"). Work through three or four real moments across the session.
The child chooses the best face from today's session and asks parent to help add it to a Feelings Book page (CLE
What to Say
- Open Question "Remember [specific moment] β what did your face do right then? Show me in the mirror."
- Wonder "Looking at your face now, what did the feeling inside feel like at the time?"
What to Observe β Log in Progress Tracker
- Can the child recall a specific real moment and physically show the face from it?
- Do they name a feeling that fits the face, or reach for a generic label?
- Does a face from the mirror transfer naturally into a Feelings Book page?
Ideas for next time
Name the feeling for each replayed moment in your heritage language as you make the face β some feelings have words in one language that simply do not exist in another.
Folding Small Cloths
Fold face washers and tea towels, corner to corner, smoothed and stacked. Precise, quiet, and reliably useful work that pays back every laundry day.
You Will Need
- 3-4 small face washers or tea towels
- A flat surface
Instructions
Set Up
Lay one cloth flat on the table. Smooth out any wrinkles together before beginning.
Fold the cloth in half together, matching the corners. Smooth with hands. Fold in half again. Place in a neat pile.
β One cloth folded in half with corners roughly aligned is a complete success.
The child folds independently. Name what is happening: Corner to corner β edges touching.
The child folds all cloths, stacks them neatly, and puts them in their designated spot.
What to Say
- Open Question Can you feel that the edges are matching? Run your finger along to check.
- Wonder When everything is folded and stacked, how does the shelf look different from before?
What to Observe β Log in Progress Tracker
- Is the child using both hands together to control the cloth?
- Does the folding become more precise with each attempt?
Ideas for next time
Name each step in your heritage language as your child completes it β turning a routine into living vocabulary.
My Home in Numbers
Walk through three rooms of the home and count the same category of thing in each one β chairs, books, windows, cushions, or whatever the child picks. Make a tally for each room. Which room has the most? Which has the fewest? The home is a counting classroom and this week we belong to it.
You Will Need
- Paper divided into three columns β one per room
- Pencil for tally marks
Instructions
Set Up
Draw three columns on a sheet of paper and label each with a room name β Kitchen, Bedroom, Sitting Room, or whichever three rooms suit your home. Choose a category together. Windows is a good first choice β clearly defined and easy to spot.
Walk through each room together and count the chosen thing. You make the tally mark for each count. When all three rooms are done, look at the tallies together β which room has the most? Which has the fewest?
β Counting one category in two rooms and pointing to which has more is a complete tally session.
The child counts independently in each room and makes their own tally marks. When done, they point to which room has the most and which has the fewest β without recounting if possible.
The child counts two categories across three rooms β windows and chairs, for example β making two tallies per room. They compare across both categories and say which room is richest in each thing.
What to Say
- Predict "Before we count β which room do you think has the most windows? Let's check if you're right."
- Open Question "We have counted in every room now. Which result surprised you most?"
- Extend "What else in our home could we count? What would you want to investigate next?"
What to Observe β Log in Progress Tracker
- Does the child count each object once β touching or pointing to each as they go?
- Can they compare two tallies without recounting both?
- Do they want to keep going and count more categories?
Ideas for next time
Count in your heritage language in at least one room β the number sequence often sounds different and that difference is worth noticing.
Preparing a Snack Independently
Your child is the Snack Chef β wash hands, get the plate, prepare the food, clean up. A complete start-to-finish sequence they own. Fifteen minutes today turns into every snack after school for the rest of the year.
You Will Need
- Child-safe spreading knife
- A plate
- Simple snack ingredients: banana, crackers and butter, or apple slices
Instructions
Set Up
Lay out all materials before beginning. Show the hand-washing step as the non-negotiable first action.
Prepare the snack together step by step. The child washes hands, you model the spreading, they copy on their own portion.
β Washing hands and placing food on a plate with minimal help is a full success.
The child prepares the snack with you nearby but not directing. Offer: What do you need to do next? if they pause.
The child prepares a snack for themselves AND for you, completing every step independently and cleaning up when finished.
What to Say
- Open Question You are the Snack Chef today. What is the very first thing we always do before touching food? Why do you think that matters?
- Wonder You made this all by yourself. How does it feel to eat something you prepared with your own hands?
What to Observe β Log in Progress Tracker
- Is the child building the hand-washing habit as a first instinct?
- Do they show increasing confidence in the physical handling of food and utensils?
Ideas for next time
Name each step in your heritage language as your child completes it β turning a routine into living vocabulary.
My Name in Many Ways
Explore the child's name through multiple modalities: write it, stamp it, build it with letter tiles, tap the syllables, and find its letters in the environment. By the end of this theme, they will spot their first letter on road signs from the back of the car without being asked.
You Will Need
- Paper and markers
- Letter tiles, stamps, or magnetic letters
- A mirror (optional)
Instructions
Set Up
Write the child's name large and clear. Say: This is the most important word you will ever learn to read. Let us explore every part of it.
Read the name together. Count the letters. Clap the syllables. Find the first letter somewhere in the room.
β The child recognizing their written name and pointing to the first letter is the foundation of everything.
The child builds their name with letter tiles, then writes it on paper. Count: how many vowels? How many consonants?
The child writes their name in five different ways: big, tiny, rainbow colors, backwards for fun, and in a sentence about themselves.
What to Say
- Wonder Your name is a word that belongs only to you. How many letters does it take to make you?
- Open Question If you had to change one letter in your name, what would you change it to and what new name would you get?
What to Observe β Log in Progress Tracker
- Does the child write their name with consistent letter formation?
- Are they reading their name or decoding it letter by letter?
Ideas for next time
If your heritage language uses a different script, write your child's name in it alongside the other versions β a name in two scripts is twice as powerful.
Exploring with a Senses Tray
Gather five objects from around the home with distinct textures, smells, or sounds and invite the child to arrange them on a tray. Your child chooses the objects, sets the tray, and leads the exploration. Twenty calm minutes that require nothing but household items and their attention.
You Will Need
- A small wooden or wicker tray
- 5β6 objects with distinct sensory qualities (a smooth stone, a piece of sandpaper, a cinnamon stick, a crinkly wrapper, a cotton ball, a small bell)
- A blindfold or sleep mask (optional, for the guessing game)
Instructions
Set Up
Gather the objects together with the child. Say β we are going to arrange these beautifully and then explore each one using a different sense.
Lay objects out together. For each one, ask: which sense will you use to really know this? Touch it, smell it, listen to it. Name the feeling β rough, soft, scratchy, sweet.
β Handling one object carefully and naming the sense used β that is the full lesson.
The child arranges the tray independently, grouping by sense. Guide a blindfolded guessing game β can they identify an object by touch or smell alone?
The child creates their own senses tray using objects from around the home, labels each with a sense word (rough, smooth, fragrant), and presents it to a family member.
What to Say
- Wonder "Close your eyes. What can you hear right now that you did not notice before?"
- Open Question "Which sense would you miss most if you lost it? Why?"
What to Observe β Log in Progress Tracker
- Does the child handle objects with care and intentionality, or rush?
- Are they building specific vocabulary β rough, smooth, sharp, fragrant, crunchy?
Ideas for next time
Describe each object in your heritage language β texture, smell, and sound words are often richer and more varied than any single language can hold.
Skill Builders
Short, low-prep activities that reinforce what your child is learning this month. Slot them in between core experiences or use them on lighter days.
Week 1 2 activities
Drop one, two, or three counting bears onto a tray and ask the child how many β without counting. Then count together to check. Repeat with different small groups, then sort by color.
Show guidance
Together, draw or cut out pictures representing each part of the daily rhythm β morning sun (wake up), book (learning time), plate (lunch), pillow (rest), moon (bedtime). Arrange them on the wall at child height and point to where we are now throughout the day. The picture schedule makes the shape of the day visible and predictable.
Show guidance
Week 2 3 activities
Explore Letter C through tracing, songs, and spotting the letter in familiar words and objects.
Show guidance
Draw your family and write or dictate each person's name, building identity and early label writing.
Show guidance
Share the book together, discussing names, feelings, and what makes each person unique and special.
Show guidance
Week 3 5 activities
Revisit Letters A, B, and C β find them in books, point them out in the room, and practice writing each one.
Show guidance
Name and find circles, squares, triangles, and rectangles around the room or outside in the environment.
Show guidance
Draw your home or learning space and label rooms and objects to connect literacy with the immediate environment.
Show guidance
Use all five senses to explore an object, texture, or outdoor space and describe what you notice.
Show guidance
Move, clap, and dance to music to build body awareness, rhythm, and social-emotional regulation.
Show guidance
Week 4 3 activities
Final review of Letters A, B, and C β sorting, matching, and reading aloud from a simple alphabet book.
Show guidance
Take a slow walk and notice what catches your eye β collect a leaf, stone, or natural object to bring back and observe.
Show guidance
Mark the end of this theme with a small ritual β share one thing that felt good, one thing you made, one thing to try next.
Show guidance
Readiness
Each experience offers three ways in: the core activity, a way to go further if your child is ready, and a next step to stretch. Follow the child's lead, not the calendar.
For full developmental benchmarks by age, see the Child Development & Learning Guide.
Skill arc focus this month:
- Beginning to identify letters A, B, and C by shape or name
- Counts objects up to 5, touching each one with support
Skill arc focus this month:
- Identifies letters A, B, and C by name; beginning to form them in writing
- Counts to 5 reliably with one-to-one correspondence
What To Gather
Everything here is household-friendly. The layout below makes substitutions easy to scan.
Monthly Box
Items specific to this month β tick each as you gather it.
Skill Arc Materials
Specific to your skill position this month β gather these for the letter and maths work.
Standard Kit
Reusable items used across multiple months β most families already have these. See the Year-Round Basics list.
Books
Picture books chosen to enrich this month's theme β read one a week, or return to favourites as often as you like.
- The Dot by Peter H. Reynolds β making a mark and claiming it as your own
- Chrysanthemum by Kevin Henkes β names, identity, and what makes you uniquely you
- In My Heart by Jo Witek β a beautiful exploration of the full range of feelings
- All Are Welcome by Alexandra Penfold β belonging and community from the very first day
- Grumpy Monkey by Suzanne Lang β emotions don't always need explaining; warm, funny, and freeing
- Non-Fiction Pick: My Body by Lisa Bullard β a simple, friendly introduction to body parts and the five senses, connecting directly to this theme's sensory exploration
Set the Stage
Learning Zones
Morning Circle
Display the child's name in large letters. Add a mirror at child height to anchor the identity theme at the start of each day.
Reading Nook
Feature books that center children's feelings and inner worlds β In My Heart, Grumpy Monkey, and Chrysanthemum are naturals for the feelings vocabulary work in Week 2.
Creation Table
Finger paints, large paper, crayons, and glue stick keep the table ready. Add cloud dough (or a flour tray) for the My Name Book letter-of-the-day work, and a mirror propped up for self-portrait sessions.
Discovery Station
Set up a bowl of water and the Name Walk collection (or child-chosen objects from home and yard) for Sink or Float. Add the mirror for portrait work.
Skill arc adjustments for your position:
- Morning Circle: Display letter cards A, B, and C at child height alongside the name display. Add a small counting tray with 5 bears or counters nearby for daily touch-counting.
- Discovery Station: Place a sorting tray alongside this month's sensory materials β bears or counters can be sorted by colour before or after science exploration.
Rabbit Trail
What is your child fascinated by right now that isn't in this theme's plan? Identity, names, and feelings are this theme's anchors β but curiosity doesn't follow a schedule.
- If they're obsessed with a particular animal, name it together, count its legs, find out where it lives β language, maths, and science in one thread.
- If they love a TV character, use that character to do the feelings chart. 'How do you think [character] felt when...?' is a perfect way in.
- If they want to talk about something that happened at home, write it down. A one-sentence dictated story is literacy. Their words, their experience.
Daily Rhythm
Match the session length to your day β everything else stays the same.
- Morning Circle Gather, greet the day, and preview what's ahead
- Core Experience The main hands-on activity for this session
- Free Exploration Unstructured play with materials from the activity
- Read-Aloud A picture book connected to the week's theme
- Creative Expression Drawing, painting, or making in response to the experience
- Closing Ritual Reflect on the session, tidy up, celebrate one win
- Morning Circle Gather, greet the day, and preview what's ahead
- Core Experience The main hands-on activity for this session
- Read-Aloud A picture book connected to the week's theme
These are not learning activities β and that is the point.
- Meals & snacks together
- Outdoor free play
- Rest or nap time
- Screen time (if used)
- Errands, chores, and everyday life
Progress Tracker & Reflection
This tracker is for your own quiet observation β not a report card. Mark what you notice. Three levels are available for each milestone: Exploring (just starting to engage), Growing (doing it with some support), and Flying (doing it confidently and independently). There is no wrong answer. Every child moves at their own pace.
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